A Month of Mother’s Days



I couldn’t be with my mom this Mother’s Day so I decided to give her a whole month’s worth of mini-mother’s day thoughts in the form of postcards. I adapted the idea from a blog post written by Brad Feld. The gist of it is to get a box of postcards (I chose Greetings From The Ocean’s Sweaty Face box of 100 cards) and each day, write a thoughtful little note and drop it in the mailbox. So, nearly every day in the month of May, my mom will get a reminder of how awesome she is!

Happy 2nd Birthday, Loki



How the time flies…

Dorsia – Inaugural Event



Ever since I moved into my house in Boulder, I’ve been wanting to throw popup dinner parties in the studio space above my garage. Last night, I finally managed to pull it off.

When I first started planning the event, a friend suggested I call my popup dinners “Dorsia“, after the fictitious, but notoriously exclusive restaurant in the movie American Psycho. I took it a step further and decided that American Psycho would be the theme for our inaugural dinner. Top Chef winner Hosea Rosenberg and his team at Blackbelly Catering orchestrated the menu, while the wonderful folks at Cured helped me create a “dinner party registry” of well-paired wines for the guests to bring. Attire was formal and there was no shortage of quippy movie quotes and props to go around. We had an 80′s soundtrack (complete with Huey Lewis and the News, of course) as well as an axe, a chainsaw, cigars, and a knife. As a take-home for all the guests, I had personalized monogrammed business card cases made for everyone.

I’ve never thrown a formal dinner party before, but this one exceeded all my expectations. The food was phenomenal, the company was fantastic, and everyone had a TON of fun. There will definitely be many more Dorsia events in the near future…

Analyze, Decide, and Execute



I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while but for whatever reason, the words have eluded me. It’s been almost a year since I went through Techstars Boulder with my company SocialEngine, and now that the newest Boulder class is about to start, it seems like a fitting time to pen my thoughts to (virtual) paper.

There are a lot of incredible reasons for a company to choose Techstars, but for us, it was a really difficult decision. SocialEngine was both bootstrapped and profitable. We weren’t focused on raising money and we felt like we were too far along for Techstars to be able to make a difference. Thank god we dug deeper.

When Nicole notified us that we were finalists, I remember being both elated and scared. Techstars sounded great in theory, but did it really make sense to give up 6% of our cash-flow-positive company for a 3 month bootcamp? We talked with both mentors and alums, but in the end the conversation that made the biggest difference to me was with Kevin Prentiss at Red Rover. At the time, he was wrapping up Techstars in New York, and he told us that while he couldn’t say for certain (yet!) that Techstars was quantitatively worth the equity, qualitatively the experience had been completely worth it. He reminded us that the relationships we form with our mentors and classmates will last well beyond the company we’re currently building, and into all our future entrepreneurial endeavors. After that phone call, I was sold.

As it turns out, Techstars has been one of the biggest influences in not just my company, but my life, to date. Everyone talks about the value of the meetings, the mentorship, the network, and the pitch practice. I don’t mean to dismiss those things – they changed the trajectory of our entire company and introduced me to a whole new set of intelligent, ambitious friends and allies – but the most worthwhile thing Techstars gave me was a simple lesson:

- Analyze your current situation and your goal, swiftly and efficiently.
- Decide on the best path to achieve your goal.
- Execute the hell out of your plan.

Those 3 steps apply EVERYWHERE in life, not just within your company. They happen to be especially important for a startup because urgency is everything, but since leaving Techstars, I see myself applying the analyze-decide-execute mantra almost daily. Everything from wishing I could leave LA (moved to Boulder right after Techstars), to wanting to climb Kilimanjaro (expedition in October), to smaller goals like wanting to throw dinner parties (that will be a story unto itself, late next week…). It’s a powerful feeling, doggedly pursuing your dreams. Much better than the limbo of waffling indecision and procrastination.

As I mentioned, I don’t mean to gloss over the impact that Techstars had on our company. It’s just that what Techstars gave me was so much broader than that. The lessons I learned and the relationships I formed at Techstars extend outside the walls of the bunker, past the three crazy months, and even beyond the time I spend working on this (or any) company.

Blue Sky St. Patty’s




BBQ dance party up at blue sky basin in Vail :)

Networking Sucks



I just got back from my first SXSW Interactive and while I had a really great time reconnecting with old friends and meeting new ones, one HUGE pet peeve I had was with the amount of traditional “networking” going on. Ok, I realize it’s a little ridiculous for me to go to one of the biggest networking events in the nation and then complain about networking, but hear me out.

How many times has this happened to you: You introduce yourself to someone, they immediately ask “so what do you do?”, and then start shoulder surfing for someone more interesting/relevant/important to talk to while you answer. I HATE that. And it happened to me more times than I can count at SXSW. Not only that, but the idea that I can distill myself into a 30 second “pitch” in an attempt to convince the other person that I really do matter is just absurd.

It’s been written about before, but I really believe that people should be going into these so-called “networking” events looking to make friends and build relationships. Half-listening to someone’s pitch just to see if they can be of use to you doesn’t accomplish that. The first person to articulate this well to me was Francisco Dao (and in fact, he built an awesome “un-conference” around this concept). People are willing to do favors for their friends – so why not try to make friends with the people you meet, regardless of whether their “use” to you is immediately evident?

Back to SXSW. By the end of my week there, I got so sick of hearing the question “what do you do?” that I actually stopped asking it in favor of “what do you *like* to do?” or, more randomly, “if you could be any kind of animal, what would you be?” (side bar: it’s amazing how many different animals I heard, ranging from penguin to lynx to raccoon, and nearly everyone answered within a split second of my asking the question…). It was a much more interesting ice breaker, I actually had more fun talking to people, and as a result, I gave out more business cards and made more real connections than I would have otherwise (one guy I met even offerred to take me canoeing on Lady Bird Lake!).

Being good at elevator pitching your company (or yourself, for that matter) *is* an important skill, but can we please stop looking at every interaction as an opportunity to further our own agendas and start looking at how we can make real human connections instead?

Our First Snow Day in CO



Deadmau5 – Ghosts N Stuff (Nero Remix)



Been loving this track ever since I watched the Art of Flight….

Mason Jar Cakes



A friend of mine recently had a birthday and I wanted to give her something fun. While browsing Pinterest (my new obsession for recipe-finding), I stumbled across this recipe for making several little differently-flavored cakes in mason jars. I loved the idea – they ended up being a lot of fun to make and came out looking really adorable. Next up: mini cherry pies!

Damn…



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Really looking forward to getting back into lifting again…